How would you deal with a cheating gf/wife

It was last month when she informed about her father's ill health, so she went to see him. After a week, she phoned me and told me she wants to come back but she doesn't have enough money for transport fares, and i sent her some money, expecting to see her in a day or two which didn't happen. I phoned her to ask why she wasn't back yet and she told me that she had used the money i sent for other things. I kept my cool and sent her some more money, and she still didn't come back and it was now like three weeks since. On 1st April, google sent me a location history mail which i opened, only to notice that she had crossed from her home district to a nearby district twice. I didn't ask why but finally when she came home last week on Tuesday, everything seemed normal until Thursday evening when i borrowed her phone. I noticed that she started behaving weirdly so, that prompted me to check her Whatsapp. Then i found her chat with a certain guy he met while in her home district. At that moment everything was laid bare. Her dirty secrets, the lovemaking, the pregnancy scare and all. How i felt at point in time was nothing short of betrayal

Whoa.....back up a bit. She pulled a pregger scare on you?!! This topic might deserve another thread.
 
I know i shouldn't be here whinning about my personal shit, but this has knocked me right off my feet. I spent the whole weekend trying to figure out how to deal with her. What hurts most is that she got layed in as less time as two weeks!! This has tormented my mind to the fullest. I felt like hitting the hell out of her but that wouldn't change anything either.so i just kept ahold of myself. I just don't know how to deal with her at the moment
Cut her loose or watch. There is no in between. Sorry dude. Bitches are whores
 
I know i shouldn't be here whinning about my personal shit, but this has knocked me right off my feet. I spent the whole weekend trying to figure out how to deal with her. What hurts most is that she got layed in as less time as two weeks!! This has tormented my mind to the fullest. I felt like hitting the hell out of her but that wouldn't change anything either.so i just kept ahold of myself. I just don't know how to deal with her at the moment
are you male or female?
 
Say goodbye, nice to know you. Ask yourself whether you could ever trust her again?
How could i?,, am very grateful to the members of this board, they offered the support and advice i desperately needed during those trying times.
Cut her loose or watch. There is no in between. Sorry dude. Bitches are whores
Its exactly what i did buddy,and indeed there's always light at the end of the tunnel.
Forgive her, and go on a fishing trip.
I did forgave her but i couldn't continue with her, we parted ways.
Whores

I'm a dick but I don't cheat. Loyalty is #1
There's nothing good in cheating. how are you doing rebar?
 
Got divorced four years ago after finding out she was cheating on me. Met an amazing woman about two years ago. She's an awesome mom and she treats my kids like her own and her kids are really fun. There's hope out there for you guys going through this shit.

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