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Renegadenole

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Do you ever get annoyed by your spouses family traits? I'm not talking about hair color or height, but the way they all talk or use certain words or have the same group think.
My peeve at the moment (or one of them) is the way they all sniff and sigh exactly the same. I've been married 27 years to my lovely wife. She's the best of the bunch, but still slightly annoying at times. The rest can drive me nuts. One aunt I would choke out if we passed in a dark alley.
 

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My in laws love making the most complicated orders at restaurants. I hate ordering food with them because I know it prob gets packed full of snot rockets from the kitchen staff
Adults shouldn't have a long list of eating issues. MIL always finds fault in her food and sends it back. Really rude most of the times too. Then doesn't hardly touch it but insist it be perfectly packaged for leftovers. I haven't been in a restaurant with her in years just because.
 

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My BIL is a complete doucher. He’s still on tMB FWIW.
BIL is a bright spot. Former Marine, LEO, farms and raises cattle on the side. Hardworking no nonsense kind of guy but with a pretty good dry humor.
FIL, who recently passed away was a he'll of a man. Ex military, farmer, construction on the side. We played a thousand rounds of golf and built all kinds of things together including a few homes.
Come to think of it, I guess it's just the females in the family...
 

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My bro in law is a two time alcohol rehab graduate and speaks down to any of us when he sees us with a drink.
At a football tailgate after my third Tito’s and tonic said something about me spacing it out with some water.
 

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#FYI: Ain't gonna spoiler this post, it's kinda spontaneous and maybe a bit raw/from the heart.







"So have no fear of them; for nothing is covered that will not be revealed, or hidden that will not be known. What I tell you in the dark, utter in the light; and what you hear whispered, proclaim upon the housetops. And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul; rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell."







This may be slightly shocking, perhaps also gives a little insight as to why I probably seem like a really fuckin socially retarded muppet.
Never been married or had kids, would love too though.

#Family...and traits.

*Dad: went to get a pack of ciggys 30y ago, should be back any minute now.😅Jks, he ditched, has another fam.

*Mom: chronic alcoholic+junkie +narc/psycho.(vicious af!)

*Me: confused scapegoat til realizing in my mid twenties that these people are not right.
I pulled a dad, "went to get ciggys few years ago". Ain't planning on seeing 3 of them ever again.

*Bro 1: just like mom, slightly worse.(unpredictable & extremely dangerous/violent)

*Bro 2: the passive aggressive version of bro 1.(the smiling embodiment of deception/ manipulation, extortion.)

*Bro 3: nothing like the above.
Pretty sure if I wasn't around, he'd have been the scapegoat.
Glad he escaped that prolonged torment.
He is a really great guy.
Doesn't touch drugs 'n' shit, well educated, stand up young man. Qualified electrician by 18-19yo, demo derby driver/mechanic, he's 25rn and last I heard he'd bought a 6th property without any financial assistance.
I don't know what the story is regarding his specific electrical expertise coz he hasn't revealed deets about why he gets flown to random countries for work, NDA possibly but I really just do not know.


Now, this I reckon ya'll might think I'm bullshitting about. Mom+Bro1 & 2 have full on attempted to murder my dumbass on multiple occasions.
Mom actually swerved into an oncoming truck when we were all under 8yo,...left us with lifelong injuries and I'm still occasionally picking glass outta my face.

Shortly before I moved across country and ditched them.
I demanded to know why these people felt justified/entitled to use me like a fuckin trash can, steal my property, stab me, smash my skull in, etc....

...they each laughed in their crooked way about it, stating similar sentiments of it being their fuckin right/entitlement yadda yadda loser,...mom said she tried to trade me for crack when I was in my early teens,... and reckons she would've pulled it off if I'd been a female.

That, was, really, fkn painful to learn.

Even worse, she was clearly still pissed about failing to actually do it.

I have forgiven them, they knew not what they did.
Though I ain't letting them near me or anyone I may come to care about in future.

So, yeah,...family traits.

There ya have it folks.

Maybe this will explain why I've tended to get a bit overly hostile towards some posters like,.. RubeCreaper, when I've noticed demonstrations of certain manipulative narcissistic behaviours.
I am trying to learn not to react so intensely, it is quite difficult doing this without any support irl,...and learning all this stuff on the fly.

Dunno, but I think TFSF has sorta become like a substitute family in a sense.
Regardless whether some can't stand my dumbshit, I still value these people,.. OfficerCooper, Hoosier, AC2021, and probably others I'm unaware of, perhaps avoiding me like a plague, lol.
Everyone on TFSF, has had a great deal of positive influence on me in these past ~6 months.
Means more than I can find the words to express.
I'll never forget ya'z.

😅Sorry I'm kinda fuckin emotional rn, in a positive sense. Bit like catharsis.

Thanks Guys 'n' Gals
 

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#FYI: Ain't gonna spoiler this post, it's kinda spontaneous and maybe a bit raw/from the heart.







"So have no fear of them; for nothing is covered that will not be revealed, or hidden that will not be known. What I tell you in the dark, utter in the light; and what you hear whispered, proclaim upon the housetops. And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul; rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell."







This may be slightly shocking, perhaps also gives a little insight as to why I probably seem like a really fuckin socially retarded muppet.
Never been married or had kids, would love too though.

#Family...and traits.

*Dad: went to get a pack of ciggys 30y ago, should be back any minute now.😅Jks, he ditched, has another fam.

*Mom: chronic alcoholic+junkie +narc/psycho.(vicious af!)

*Me: confused scapegoat til realizing in my mid twenties that these people are not right.
I pulled a dad, "went to get ciggys few years ago". Ain't planning on seeing 3 of them ever again.

*Bro 1: just like mom, slightly worse.(unpredictable & extremely dangerous/violent)

*Bro 2: the passive aggressive version of bro 1.(the smiling embodiment of deception/ manipulation, extortion.)

*Bro 3: nothing like the above.
Pretty sure if I wasn't around, he'd have been the scapegoat.
Glad he escaped that prolonged torment.
He is a really great guy.
Doesn't touch drugs 'n' shit, well educated, stand up young man. Qualified electrician by 18-19yo, demo derby driver/mechanic, he's 25rn and last I heard he'd bought a 6th property without any financial assistance.
I don't know what the story is regarding his specific electrical expertise coz he hasn't revealed deets about why he gets flown to random countries for work, NDA possibly but I really just do not know.


Now, this I reckon ya'll might think I'm bullshitting about. Mom+Bro1 & 2 have full on attempted to murder my dumbass on multiple occasions.
Mom actually swerved into an oncoming truck when we were all under 8yo,...left us with lifelong injuries and I'm still occasionally picking glass outta my face.

Shortly before I moved across country and ditched them.
I demanded to know why these people felt justified/entitled to use me like a fuckin trash can, steal my property, stab me, smash my skull in, etc....

...they each laughed in their crooked way about it, stating similar sentiments of it being their fuckin right/entitlement yadda yadda loser,...mom said she tried to trade me for crack when I was in my early teens,... and reckons she would've pulled it off if I'd been a female.

That, was, really, fkn painful to learn.

Even worse, she was clearly still pissed about failing to actually do it.

I have forgiven them, they knew not what they did.
Though I ain't letting them near me or anyone I may come to care about in future.

So, yeah,...family traits.

There ya have it folks.

Maybe this will explain why I've tended to get a bit overly hostile towards some posters like,.. RubeCreaper, when I've noticed demonstrations of certain manipulative narcissistic behaviours.
I am trying to learn not to react so intensely, it is quite difficult doing this without any support irl,...and learning all this stuff on the fly.

Dunno, but I think TFSF has sorta become like a substitute family in a sense.
Regardless whether some can't stand my dumbshit, I still value these people,.. OfficerCooper, Hoosier, AC2021, and probably others I'm unaware of, perhaps avoiding me like a plague, lol.
Everyone on TFSF, has had a great deal of positive influence on me in these past ~6 months.
Means more than I can find the words to express.
I'll never forget ya'z.

😅Sorry I'm kinda fuckin emotional rn, in a positive sense. Bit like catharsis.

Thanks Guys 'n' Gals

Damn dude. That’s a rough go of things. Kudos to you
 

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Fil is the best man I know, he’s put up with some serious shit over the years with his family and me but would never hesitate to be there for us.
Mil is a giant skank, has probly been wallered out by a few of you fine gents when you were too drunk to say no.
Sil is about the same as her mom but she actually recognizes it and has tried to change. She’s a few years older than my wife and the same age as me we actually grew up as neighbors. She’s going through a rough time right now and needs some prayers.
Bil is gay and in a relationship with another guy they live together. His bf is actually a pretty cool guy and bil isn’t too bad, he’s catholic like the rest of their family and knows what he is into is a sin but does it anyway. But I have 2 boys 5&7 and they are starting to ask questions so any advice on that would be appreciated, and I refuse to disown them or anything like that cuz him and his skank mom saved my life once and I know they’d do it again

@CuriousFiend
I thought I’d been thru some serious shit but good lord man you’re my freaking hero
 

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#FYI: Ain't gonna spoiler this post, it's kinda spontaneous and maybe a bit raw/from the heart.







"So have no fear of them; for nothing is covered that will not be revealed, or hidden that will not be known. What I tell you in the dark, utter in the light; and what you hear whispered, proclaim upon the housetops. And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul; rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell."







This may be slightly shocking, perhaps also gives a little insight as to why I probably seem like a really fuckin socially retarded muppet.
Never been married or had kids, would love too though.

#Family...and traits.

*Dad: went to get a pack of ciggys 30y ago, should be back any minute now.😅Jks, he ditched, has another fam.

*Mom: chronic alcoholic+junkie +narc/psycho.(vicious af!)

*Me: confused scapegoat til realizing in my mid twenties that these people are not right.
I pulled a dad, "went to get ciggys few years ago". Ain't planning on seeing 3 of them ever again.

*Bro 1: just like mom, slightly worse.(unpredictable & extremely dangerous/violent)

*Bro 2: the passive aggressive version of bro 1.(the smiling embodiment of deception/ manipulation, extortion.)

*Bro 3: nothing like the above.
Pretty sure if I wasn't around, he'd have been the scapegoat.
Glad he escaped that prolonged torment.
He is a really great guy.
Doesn't touch drugs 'n' shit, well educated, stand up young man. Qualified electrician by 18-19yo, demo derby driver/mechanic, he's 25rn and last I heard he'd bought a 6th property without any financial assistance.
I don't know what the story is regarding his specific electrical expertise coz he hasn't revealed deets about why he gets flown to random countries for work, NDA possibly but I really just do not know.


Now, this I reckon ya'll might think I'm bullshitting about. Mom+Bro1 & 2 have full on attempted to murder my dumbass on multiple occasions.
Mom actually swerved into an oncoming truck when we were all under 8yo,...left us with lifelong injuries and I'm still occasionally picking glass outta my face.

Shortly before I moved across country and ditched them.
I demanded to know why these people felt justified/entitled to use me like a fuckin trash can, steal my property, stab me, smash my skull in, etc....

...they each laughed in their crooked way about it, stating similar sentiments of it being their fuckin right/entitlement yadda yadda loser,...mom said she tried to trade me for crack when I was in my early teens,... and reckons she would've pulled it off if I'd been a female.

That, was, really, fkn painful to learn.

Even worse, she was clearly still pissed about failing to actually do it.

I have forgiven them, they knew not what they did.
Though I ain't letting them near me or anyone I may come to care about in future.

So, yeah,...family traits.

There ya have it folks.

Maybe this will explain why I've tended to get a bit overly hostile towards some posters like,.. RubeCreaper, when I've noticed demonstrations of certain manipulative narcissistic behaviours.
I am trying to learn not to react so intensely, it is quite difficult doing this without any support irl,...and learning all this stuff on the fly.

Dunno, but I think TFSF has sorta become like a substitute family in a sense.
Regardless whether some can't stand my dumbshit, I still value these people,.. OfficerCooper, Hoosier, AC2021, and probably others I'm unaware of, perhaps avoiding me like a plague, lol.
Everyone on TFSF, has had a great deal of positive influence on me in these past ~6 months.
Means more than I can find the words to express.
I'll never forget ya'z.

😅Sorry I'm kinda fuckin emotional rn, in a positive sense. Bit like catharsis.

Thanks Guys 'n' Gals

Good for you for escaping that hell !!
 

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Fil is the best man I know, he’s put up with some serious shit over the years with his family and me but would never hesitate to be there for us.
Mil is a giant skank, has probly been wallered out by a few of you fine gents when you were too drunk to say no.
Sil is about the same as her mom but she actually recognizes it and has tried to change. She’s a few years older than my wife and the same age as me we actually grew up as neighbors. She’s going through a rough time right now and needs some prayers.
Bil is gay and in a relationship with another guy they live together. His bf is actually a pretty cool guy and bil isn’t too bad, he’s catholic like the rest of their family and knows what he is into is a sin but does it anyway. But I have 2 boys 5&7 and they are starting to ask questions so any advice on that would be appreciated, and I refuse to disown them or anything like that cuz him and his skank mom saved my life once and I know they’d do it again

@CuriousFiend
I thought I’d been thru some serious shit but good lord man you’re my freaking hero

I don’t have advice but it reminded me of this conversation with my five year old little girl a couple of weeks ago.

Isla: Daddy, why do some boys wanna be girls?
Me: Because baby, some people need a head doctor.
Isla: Oh, so they're brainwashed

So easy a five year old can get it
 
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I don’t have advice but it reminded me of this conversation with my five year old little girl a couple of weeks ago.

My five year old little girl asked me this morning.

Isla: Daddy, why do some boys wanna be girls?
Me: Because baby, some people need a head doctor.
Isla: Oh, so they're brainwashed

So easy a five year old can get it
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I don’t have advice but it reminded me of this conversation with my five year old little girl a couple of weeks ago.

Isla: Daddy, why do some boys wanna be girls?
Me: Because baby, some people need a head doctor.
Isla: Oh, so they're brainwashed

So easy a five year old can get it

Ya that seems so easy and simple. I’m sure my kids are that fucking stupid
 

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Do you ever get annoyed by your spouses family traits? I'm not talking about hair color or height, but the way they all talk or use certain words or have the same group think.
My peeve at the moment (or one of them) is the way they all sniff and sigh exactly the same. I've been married 27 years to my lovely wife. She's the best of the bunch, but still slightly annoying at times. The rest can drive me nuts. One aunt I would choke out if we passed in a dark alley.
Annoying is a term women use. I like to say, as a man "gets on my nerves". Maybe bc my wife and her family of women use the term "annoying" to much for to many things....
 

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It’s a mental health issue. They’re recruiting kids via brainwashing. It’s been a known MH issue for decades. Sorry, not sorry if you can’t deal with that reality and fact.
So are you saying queers are all brainwashed or are they born with mental health issues?
I have mental health issues but I still like vagina.
Some people choose to live a life of sin even though they know the consequences. That doesn’t mean they’re retarded or brainwashed, they just really really like to be gay. Is their sin any different from mine or yours?
Your logic makes no sense. The last thing I want is my kids thinking everyone else is brainwashed or retarded just cuz they’re different. No offense intended towards you or daughter
 

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So are you saying queers are all brainwashed or are they born with mental health issues?
I have mental health issues but I still like vagina.
Some people choose to live a life of sin even though they know the consequences. That doesn’t mean they’re retarded or brainwashed, they just really really like to be gay. Is their sin any different from mine or yours?
Your logic makes no sense. The last thing I want is my kids thinking everyone else is brainwashed or retarded just cuz they’re different. No offense intended towards you or daughter

No. I’m saying trans specifically. Queer is an umbrella term
 

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No. I’m saying trans specifically. Queer is an umbrella term
Now the whole trans thing is a whole other subject I’ve already had to talk with my 7 year old about, which is very unfortunate. There’s a boy 2 years older than him in the same school that gets dressed like a girl most days, wearing dresses, hair done up and shit. I grew up with his mom she used to be normal but when the covid stuff happened she went FULL retard woke lib and already married to a cuck so he just follows along . She’s a teacher in the same grade school along with my wife, and this bitch was one of the only teachers in the school that made a big deal about covid and wanted little kids wearing masks. But this poor kid he’s really a great kid and super athletic his uncle and grandpa were 2 of the best athletes to ever go thru our school and I know this is tearing them up. The parents try to say he chooses to dress like a girl but bull fucking shit. He’s looks like a dam freak show and down right creepy now that he started growing and getting muscular and athletic like the rest of his family. I expect them to move to another town soon.
 

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Now the whole trans thing is a whole other subject I’ve already had to talk with my 7 year old about, which is very unfortunate. There’s a boy 2 years older than him in the same school that gets dressed like a girl most days, wearing dresses, hair done up and shit. I grew up with his mom she used to be normal but when the covid stuff happened she went FULL retard woke lib and already married to a cuck so he just follows along . She’s a teacher in the same grade school along with my wife, and this bitch was one of the only teachers in the school that made a big deal about covid and wanted little kids wearing masks. But this poor kid he’s really a great kid and super athletic his uncle and grandpa were 2 of the best athletes to ever go thru our school and I know this is tearing them up. The parents try to say he chooses to dress like a girl but bull fucking shit. He’s looks like a dam freak show and down right creepy now that he started growing and getting muscular and athletic like the rest of his family. I expect them to move to another town soon.

Oh jeez. Is this a new form of munchausen’s by proxy or some mix of that and narcissism? This is just awful. My oldest had a classmate in 1st grade with two mommies. The kid was angry as hell all the time and rude to everyone, a bully.

My wife had my son get him a Christmas gift even though he wasn’t a fan. Teacher told us it changed the kids attitude to much more manageable. Blew my mind. My wife was just pushing Christian values to say “hey, people care.” I was afraid it would make it worse.

I was speaking specifically to the trans movement btw.
 

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Now the whole trans thing is a whole other subject I’ve already had to talk with my 7 year old about, which is very unfortunate. There’s a boy 2 years older than him in the same school that gets dressed like a girl most days, wearing dresses, hair done up and shit. I grew up with his mom she used to be normal but when the covid stuff happened she went FULL retard woke lib and already married to a cuck so he just follows along . She’s a teacher in the same grade school along with my wife, and this bitch was one of the only teachers in the school that made a big deal about covid and wanted little kids wearing masks. But this poor kid he’s really a great kid and super athletic his uncle and grandpa were 2 of the best athletes to ever go thru our school and I know this is tearing them up. The parents try to say he chooses to dress like a girl but bull fucking shit. He’s looks like a dam freak show and down right creepy now that he started growing and getting muscular and athletic like the rest of his family. I expect them to move to another town soon.

I just tell my kids that the trans kids are confused, going through a phase, and have bad parents.
 

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You have trouble reading or something?
Seems like there's valid points presented by each of you guys aye, coz im agreeing with the core of both your argument and that of Champsballs argument.


Forgive my dipshittedness here guys, I reckon there's gotta be another more constructive solution.
Though really haven't figured one that doesn't involve stripping away all layers of overburden and then merging the valid core aspects from both sides of this staunchly dichotomous standoff.

*There's something weird I've noticed while on TFSF,...never experienced it beforehand.
Kinda like,...🤔...maybe, have ya'z been mates with two people who are randomly hostile towards each other?

😅Fuckn trips me out hundy.
Here's an example of a couple of very recognizable lovebirds from a while back!
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