Funny enough....had this moment this weekend.
We're at a lax tournament (Max's team won) . So between games, we all go next door (same building ) to the bar for the Bengals game. I was given instructions to get over there and get tables for everyone. I understood my assignment.
Welp, a family made it over and their son had rolled his ankle in the game he had just lost to Max's team. (And be sure I was not happy to see the young man injured. I don't play that way. It could easily be my kid. I pray before every game for every player's health and safety).
They sit down at a bar top table in front of us (we have about 20 people) but it's fine. The TVs are high enough that everybody can see.
And then this Dad realizes who's sitting behind him and decides to stand and move back and forth to purposely block anybody from watching. All the men are loudly telling him to sit down or move, but he developed sudden deafness.
So, me, being me, I went up to him and asked if he could pick a spot, scrunch down, or sit (and I promise, I was nice, smiling and charming. His wife was smiling back at me as I was asking). He turned around with a raised hand and said, "I was here first. Go sit down and shut up". I laughed, thinking he was joking because do what, now? He wasn't, but that was irrelevant and surely he didn't pull that as an excuse and SURELY he didn't turn around with that hand raised ....he did.
Everybody froze. Except me. I'm wearing him out

.....and then my husbsnd made it clear
from his seat that little dude needed to think about his next move and words very carefully. This dude actually challenged my husband "to take this outside, he's not fucking listening to your shit. We'll settle this outside. Right now, bitch.".
I'm still standing in front of this guy and trying to warm him that this is not a path he wants to go down while trying to keep my husband and son settled. (This is truly for asshat's own good). Meanwhile, his wife grabbed her youngest kids and left with quite the look of death at her husband.
He stupidly kept going. And then my husband stood up. My 6'4, 230 lb husband. (He's the most easy going, friends with anybody and everybody guy. Everybody loves him. And he generally loves everybody. I'm not kidding. He makes friends everywhere he goes..... There are a couple of few people on OB and Mb and maybe here who know him.....Until he decides he needs to step in. A man raising his hand and getting shitty at me will do it...quick like. Very rare occurence) Msx stood up. (Same. Don't fuck with his mama, sisters or, really, any girl) This dude might have been 5'8/160. But no backing down now. I moved back to the table and told the asshat he was a jackass and just stop talking.....great role model for his sons. He said 'you heard what I said'. Yep, punkin, everybody heard what you said. There's a reason your friends, wife and kids aren't backing you up. I suggest you sit down. (As I'm grabbing and forcing my husband and son to sit their assess down)
So, got everybody calmed down, he stood for another 5 minutes to make his whateverthatpointwas and then sat his skinny ass down. Another dad went over to talk to him for a few minutes and apparently, he was feeling embarrassed and knew he was way out of line and was upset his kid was hurt (so was I. I talked to his son earlier) and just pissed off. He wanted to apologize to me..And then....he just left. I'm pretty sure his wife got hold of and made him leave.
And my (and everybody else's) lasting impression is he's a coward.
I would have accepted his apology and we would have bought him a drink. And my husband would have made it all okay while making it clear there are limits to shittiness....and a threat, real or implied, at me is the absolute limit.