I feel so sad for these people. Yes, there is a stupid games/prizes angle to this. There is also a profound failure by many people around these victims: school employees, doctors, "friends", and most sadly, family. Many of these people would not be in the horrible place they're in now if not for these failures. People are ultimately responsible for their own decisions, but how informed are the decisions if they only hear from the pro-transition people?
These people need to have their stories and voices elevated. More people need to hear these stories. Ridiculing them for their decisions does not do that.
Not calling you out personally, just making a general statement.