Love & mental health

[GarnetPild]

Are you talking about the mentals or gingers? Could be either way here, maybe both.

Both would make alot of sense. You throw not having a soul into the mix, already having the mental shit, and there is probably no limit to the evil.

 

[IAmDamagedGoods]

Oh shit They figured me out!!!! Attention seeking, ugly, & fake as fuck.

 

[IAmDamagedGoods]

Could very well be, but only one problem with your postulation - a narcissist would post a photo that was much more flattering.

At least I have the balls to post an actual pic of myself even if it isn't that flattering.

 

[IAmDamagedGoods]

Just saying!

 

[champsballs]

At least I have the balls to post an actual pic of myself even if it isn't that flattering.

 

[AmericanViking]

Once they realize that you are on to them. They will take every vulnerability you have shared with them you can imagine and find a way to use those weaknesses against you. If you have kids and he knows they mean a lot to you he will use them against you if possible. They do this in hopes that you respond irrationally and then paint you to be the crazy one. They will blame you for everything, they are incapable of having empathy.

That’s what my brother went through

 

[MFFGA]

That’s what my brother went through

Thoughts and Prayers for your brother. I was married to one, and have spent over 40 grand in lawyers battling false allegations for custody battles. She had an affair with my neighbor, who has now tried to fight me 4 times. I served in the military and have PTSD, the fights are an attempt to bait me to react so she can say I'm to unstable to be around the kids. It is straight madness, and the courts love when a divorce goes this way. $$$

 

[AmericanViking]

Thoughts and Prayers for your brother. I was married to one, and have spent over 40 grand in lawyers battling false allegations for custody battles. She had an affair with my neighbor, who has now tried to fight me 4 times. I served in the military and have PTSD, the fights are an attempt to bait me to react so she can say I'm to unstable to be around the kids. It is straight madness, and the courts love when a divorce goes this way. $$$

Sorry dude. It’s long fucked up story with my brother that continues today.

 

[MFFGA]

Sorry dude. It’s long fucked up story with my brother that continues today.

It will never end. I have learned to accept it. The best ways to deal with them is keeping all communication to email or text messages. Keep it only about the children, even if they bait you to argue while trying to discuss the children. Go silent mode and try to go back to the discussion a few days later. Build a trail of evidence, I always wear a hidden camera around my ex for every function. Luckily my daughters are very bright and see through the bullshit their mom spews to them, if only they were old enough to choose where they want to live.

 

[champsballs]

It will never end. I have learned to accept it. The best ways to deal with them is keeping all communication to email or text messages. Keep it only about the children, even if they bait you to argue while trying to discuss the children. Go silent mode and try to go back to the discussion a few days later. Build a trail of evidence, I always wear a hidden camera around my ex for every function. Luckily my daughters are very bright and see through the bullshit their mom spews to them, if only they were old enough to choose where they want to live.

That’s kinda crazy but unfortunately it’s a little to common.
After your kids turn 18 if you wanna stomp out this dirtbag neighbor I got your back.

 

[champsballs]

Just saying!

Sorry I’m more of a fentanyl type of guy.
I know a place u could get some good shit if you wanna sprinkle a little bit on ur hubby’s meth pipe, he’d never know what hit him it’d be a nice relaxing slow painless death. Then twist the turntables and jab that cocksucker with about 5 doses of narcan turn up some really loud edm and watch him freak out

 

[GarnetPild]

Sorry I’m more of a fentanyl type of guy.
I know a place u could get some good shit if you wanna sprinkle a little bit on ur hubby’s meth pipe, he’d never know what hit him it’d be a nice relaxing slow painless death. Then twist the turntables and jab that cocksucker with about 5 doses of narcan turn up some really loud edm and watch him freak out

FIFY

 

[IAmDamagedGoods]

Sorry I’m more of a fentanyl type of guy.
I know a place u could get some good shit if you wanna sprinkle a little bit on ur hubby’s meth pipe, he’d never know what hit him it’d be a nice relaxing slow painless death. Then twist the turntables and jab that cocksucker with about 5 doses of narcan turn up some really loud edm and watch him freak out

We don't fuck with that shit! Thank God!!!!!! I can't imagine him on meth on top of his mental issues! I love plants tho.

 

[weaponoffreedom]

back to personality disorders......

it is common for narc\socio\psycho...........to be people pleasers. Some learn to control it.

Thoughts and Prayers for your brother. I was married to one, and have spent over 40 grand in lawyers battling false allegations for custody battles. She had an affair with my neighbor, who has now tried to fight me 4 times. I served in the military and have PTSD, the fights are an attempt to bait me to react so she can say I'm to unstable to be around the kids. It is straight madness, and the courts love when a divorce goes this way. $$$

the courts dont give a fuck, the lawyers like it, understand that

 

[MFFGA]

back to personality disorders......

it is common for narc\socio\psycho...........to be people pleasers. Some learn to control it.

the courts dont give a fuck, the lawyers like it, understand that

Normally I would agree with you. With that said, the county I live in is a good ole boys network. My ex wifes attorney represents all the judges on their own personal cases except 1 judge in the county. I was finally able to get the original judge recused due to the conflict of interest back in March. I am in the process of filing paperwork with the JTC because of this conflict of interest.

I am not the only parent it is happening to where I live. Thankfully enough people have started to stand up and accountability is coming. Multiple judges and a specific law firm have been getting hit with lawsuits.

The worst part is once you start connecting the dots this law firm and specific judges also hangout with many pedos in the county and protect them. Many photos have also surfaced of said judges with underage girls on their boats and these pedos with them.

 

[MFFGA]

That’s kinda crazy but unfortunately it’s a little to common.
After your kids turn 18 if you wanna stomp out this dirtbag neighbor I got your back.

This guy is real special. So we became friends before he had an affair with my ex wife. We met because they were looking for daycare for his soon to be born baby girl. He told me he was an Army Airborne Ranger. He also went on to tell me about shit that happened to him in Afghanistan. Plus he bragged about all the guys he got to join the Army based off his stories. After I found out about the affair. I poked further into his past, he went in the Army, but received an uncharacterized discharge after 3 months and 13 days. Piece of shit steals valor as well. I cant wait until their 18th bday.

 

[AmericanViking]

This guy is real special. So we became friends before he had an affair with my ex wife. We met because they were looking for daycare for his soon to be born baby girl. He told me he was an Army Airborne Ranger. He also went on to tell me about shit that happened to him in Afghanistan. Plus he bragged about all the guys he got to join the Army based off his stories. After I found out about the affair. I poked further into his past, he went in the Army, but received an uncharacterized discharge after 3 months and 13 days. Piece of shit steals valor as well. I cant wait until their 18th bday.

Did you and his wife consider getting revenge?

 

[Rube Reaper]

23yrs ago, when I got married, mental health issues weren't really discussed. Those who suffered from mental issues were shamed into not receiving the help they truly needed. I didn't even know what Narcissism was until recently but learning of this disorder has opened my eyes to so much. For anyone else dealing with a loved one who has this issue, my heart goes out to you. It is easy to love but hard to like a narcissist! Those who know...KNOW!!!

Very brave post!

Let me guess, he is a orange man supporter?

 

[champsballs]

This guy is real special. So we became friends before he had an affair with my ex wife. We met because they were looking for daycare for his soon to be born baby girl. He told me he was an Army Airborne Ranger. He also went on to tell me about shit that happened to him in Afghanistan. Plus he bragged about all the guys he got to join the Army based off his stories. After I found out about the affair. I poked further into his past, he went in the Army, but received an uncharacterized discharge after 3 months and 13 days. Piece of shit steals valor as well. I cant wait until their 18th bday.

Did you and his wife consider getting revenge?

Get your mind out of the gutter @AmericanViking nobody wants to see any weird revenge porn right now.
@MFFGA you have my attention and curiosity. If you want this faggit messed with you know where to find me

 

[MFFGA]

Did you and his wife consider getting revenge?

The thought came across our minds many times and almost happened one night. With that said, because her ex husband and my ex wife were being so sloppy with keeping their relationship away from the kids. We did not want to chance it and have the kids find out. Probably should have just said fuck it and plowed away. Plus the ultimate revenge will happen to him one day. She will do the same shit to him as she did to me.

 

[MFFGA]

Did you and his wife consider getting revenge?

Plus I got the ultimate revenge in the end. Since my divorce I have lost 135 pounds, I have taken my PTSD more serious and am getting the right help for it finally. I have been working on a business for the last year and a half and its finally starting to pay off. Plus I get that crazy bitch off my back. My kids and I have the best relationship we have ever had regardless of the parental alienation she tries to throw at them.

 

[MFFGA]

back to personality disorders......

it is common for narc\socio\psycho...........to be people pleasers. Some learn to control it.

the courts dont give a fuck, the lawyers like it, understand that

Plus if you look up child support and title 4 D it will blow your mind and how the courts have created another way to spread the wealth. I'm all for child support but when the federal government has a clause that they will match child support dollars that are brought in by the state at a federal level. That's why we have custodial parents and the system we have.

 

[champsballs]

Normally I would agree with you. With that said, the county I live in is a good ole boys network. My ex wifes attorney represents all the judges on their own personal cases except 1 judge in the county. I was finally able to get the original judge recused due to the conflict of interest back in March. I am in the process of filing paperwork with the JTC because of this conflict of interest.

I am not the only parent it is happening to where I live. Thankfully enough people have started to stand up and accountability is coming. Multiple judges and a specific law firm have been getting hit with lawsuits.

The worst part is once you start connecting the dots this law firm and specific judges also hangout with many pedos in the county and protect them. Many photos have also surfaced of said judges with underage girls on their boats and these pedos with them.

You’re either full of shit or you don’t know how this internet thing works

 

[MFFGA]

You’re either full of shit or you don’t know how this internet thing works

I am not full of shit. I can provide this stuff, unfortunately I am in the middle of a custody battle so there is only so much I will post. If you wish to see the stuff I have, it will take some time to dig up. I will gladly send it to you through a direct message. The county I live in, there's a guy who tried to go up against the system and the judge put him in jail on bullshit contempt charges.

 

[Deleted member 2886]

What is the discard phase?

Generally speaking, it typically manifests prior to the "lovebombing" phase of the—sometimes delayed—yet repeating cycle of perpetual—ever compounding abuse.

A petulant child may discard a toy—perhaps, for a time,...but so far as the child's concerned, that toy is forever a possession.

 

[weaponoffreedom]

Plus I got the ultimate revenge in the end. Since my divorce I have lost 135 pounds, I have taken my PTSD more serious and am getting the right help for it finally. I have been working on a business for the last year and a half and its finally starting to pay off. Plus I get that crazy bitch off my back. My kids and I have the best relationship we have ever had regardless of the parental alienation she tries to throw at them.

Not to get too gay but you lost 135 lbs? You must have been a fat mofo..........were you that way when you got married of did you gain the weight after marriage,,,,,,did she get all fat too?

 

[Deleted member 2886]

I read a great deal regarding popular psychosis and I can tell you that if you read what 10 experts have to say you will find they all have their own little twist on a very unfortunate mental conundrum. Good luck.

Absolutely agree.
This is indictive as to the True purpose for the—propping up—of such individuals—as these so-called "experts",...
...in all influential positions of mankind's departmentalized civilization.

*Control.

Ever wonder why Freud and Jung fell out?
Definitely check into it, if not already.

Anyways, here's some insightful literature from Jung:

 

[IAmDamagedGoods]

Another day in hell with the mentally insane! God grant me the ability to get thru this without losing myself!

 

[MFFGA]

Not to get too gay but you lost 135 lbs? You must have been a fat mofo..........were you that way when you got married of did you gain the weight after marriage,,,,,,did she get all fat too?

I was about 315 when we got married, 350 at my biggest and 325 by the time she filed for divorce. I had actually started getting healthy and changing my life style before she filed.

 

[weaponoffreedom]

I was about 315 when we got married, 350 at my biggest and 325 by the time she filed for divorce. I had actually started getting healthy and changing my life style before she filed.

Maybe it was too late......btu either way, good on you for losing the weight and getting on track.......get a better one, and show her whats up!

 

[AreliTucker]

Just stumbled upon this thread, and your post really resonated with me. Mental Health is such a crucial topic, yet it often gets swept under the rug, especially in the past. It's heartening to see more awareness and conversations happening nowadays. I can relate to your experience of not fully understanding certain mental health issues until later in life. It's like discovering a whole new world of understanding, isn't it? And dealing with a loved one who has such issues can be incredibly challenging. My heart truly goes out to you and anyone navigating similar situations. Regarding borderline personality disorder, while I'm new here and not an expert, I believe some of the symptoms include intense mood swings, fear of abandonment, unstable relationships, impulsivity, and identity disturbance.

 

[AnndyManuka]

I can relate to your experience of realizing the impact of narcissism in relationships. It's like uncovering a hidden truth that changes everything. I once had a close friend whose behavior puzzled me until I learned about narcissistic traits. It was eye-opening, but also challenging to navigate.

 

[weaponoffreedom]

I can relate to your experience of realizing the impact of narcissism in relationships. It's like uncovering a hidden truth that changes everything. I once had a close friend whose behavior puzzled me until I learned about narcissistic traits. It was eye-opening, but also challenging to navigate.

It is the perception that makes the impact, and sometimes the perception is wrong, dead wrong.

 

[weaponoffreedom]

Just stumbled upon this thread, and your post really resonated with me. Mental Health is such a crucial topic, yet it often gets swept under the rug, especially in the past. It's heartening to see more awareness and conversations happening nowadays. I can relate to your experience of not fully understanding certain mental health issues until later in life. It's like discovering a whole new world of understanding, isn't it? And dealing with a loved one who has such issues can be incredibly challenging. My heart truly goes out to you and anyone navigating similar situations. Regarding borderline personality disorder, while I'm new here and not an expert, I believe some of the symptoms include intense mood swings, fear of abandonment, unstable relationships, impulsivity, and identity disturbance.

sounds like someone i know

 

[CurtOFD78]

Did not read the entire thread, but just want to say a few things. My department just had a suicide by a young, aspiring guy who was well liked. 2nd suicide in 10 years. I just happen to be in the process of getting onto the peer support team for my department. I’ve dealt with mental health issues twice, once dealing from treating a local PD officer who was brutally murdered (if you do a little investigation and deduction you can figure it out pretty easily) and the second from a combination of stress from work/school/and the wife just said the wrong thing at the wrong time. I had to go get help so I didn’t do something I cannot take back. I say all of that to say this: There are numerous resources out there that can help anyone dealing with mental health issues, regardless of the reason why you are having trouble. I’ll say this to everyone on this board: I know I don’t “KNOW” you and you don’t “KNOW” me, but if you’re dealing with something, feel free to DM me and I promise it’ll stay between you and me. I can look into finding out how to get you the help you need. The stigma attached to mental health issues, especially for proud, red blooded, alpha type men is a big obstacle to overcome. But it is a way better alternative than doing something that you can never take back and never ask forgiveness for.

 

[Golbez]

Are you talking about the mentals or gingers? Could be either way here, maybe both.

In my case it was a psycho blonde ex wife. Good god still dealing with that mess of a mistake even after she got ANOTHER divorce in the form of near constant litigation, and I was officially divorced in 2018...

 

[AnndyManuka]

I can relate to your experience of realizing the impact of narcissism in relationships. It's like uncovering a hidden truth that changes everything. I once had a close friend whose behavior puzzled me until I learned about narcissistic traits. It was eye-opening, but also challenging to navigate. By the way, if you're interested, I recently stumbled upon a fascinating work-from-home survey that touches on mental health: work from home survey. It's interesting to see how our work environments can affect our well-being.

 

[weaponoffreedom]

Some say that certain officially named traits of mental status are in fact , bullshit. Be that as it may, they exist, whatever you call them. Like being a flake, for example. Their is no neat definition of flake, but we all know what they are.

 

[Mungri]

I have AVPD, and in my psychotherapy realized my abusive dad had NPD and my mum DPD (avoidant / narcissistic / dependant).

Indian family - forget about the wypipo joke of 'Get in the kitchen and make me a sandwich' ... if my dad's dinner wasn't ready as soon as he got home, my mum would be beaten.

I try talk about my experiences openly anywhere else online, I get called a racist and banned.

 

[weaponoffreedom]

I have AVPD, and in my psychotherapy realized my abusive dad had NPD and my mum DPD (avoidant / narcissistic / dependant).

Indian family - forget about the wypipo joke of 'Get in the kitchen and make me a sandwich' ... if my dad's dinner wasn't ready as soon as he got home, my mum would be beaten.

I try talk about my experiences openly anywhere else online, I get called a racist and banned.

what is racist about that?