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Ladies and Gents no BS post looking for advice. Will start divorce proceedings soon.

HiddenLakes

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It’s time so let’s skip all past the pepper thy
Anus shit because I know I’m already going to get raped in court over it.

First appointment is tomorrow. Looking for any do’s and don’ts to get prepared for separation.
 

Mr.Fitzwell

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It’s time so let’s skip all past the pepper thy
Anus shit because I know I’m already going to get raped in court over it.

First appointment is tomorrow. Looking for any do’s and don’ts to get prepared for separation.
Mine is almost over, ugliest parts are done...skipping past the court rapings and all, the most difficult part is adjusting to life afterwards...opinions/decisions that used to be made together are now separate. That was difficult for me to adjust to...I'll gladly be an ear for you if you need someone, bro...
 

Rube Reaper

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It’s time so let’s skip all past the pepper thy
Anus shit because I know I’m already going to get raped in court over it.

First appointment is tomorrow. Looking for any do’s and don’ts to get prepared for separation.
No woman should have to deal with you MAGA terrorists. I’m happy to read she left you!

Trying supporting women’s constitutional right to an abortion from now on and you might seem like less of a monster.
 

HiddenLakes

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Mine is almost over, ugliest parts are done...skipping past the court rapings and all, the most difficult part is adjusting to life afterwards...opinions/decisions that used to be made together are now separate. That was difficult for me to adjust to...I'll gladly be an ear for you if you need someone, bro...
Biggest questions I have is when can I cut finances off. She’s bleeding me dry.
 

PeytonMooning

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denn

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It’s time so let’s skip all past the pepper thy
Anus shit because I know I’m already going to get raped in court over it.

First appointment is tomorrow. Looking for any do’s and don’ts to get prepared for separation.
Be calm and reasonable. Do not under any circumstance lose your cool. Make reasonable requests about finances ect....it still may not matter much as most states lean towards the woman but it won’t hurt to be the adult in the room. Even if you do not get much in leeway during the separation it is still best to remain even keeled. Show her and anyone repping her respect. There is much to be decided past the first appointment and every mistake you make no doubt be used against you down the road. Judges, mediators, ect all take those things into account.

Sorry your marriage is ending but you are going to have a life after you are done with all of this and that is an opportunity to build happiness for yourself. I went through mine 10 years ago and while it was the right thing for both of us, it was not an easy time even though we both agreed we had to split apart. What was great was I took it as an opportunity to do those things I hadn’t gotten to when I got married. like becoming the director of golf at my home course and recently officially becoming a certified golf instructor. I got engaged again a few moths ago with a woman that was also in the golf industry and I feel much more equipped for that type of commitment. Sorry for the life story, it just wanted to say that there is light at the end of the tunnel and even if she does bleed you dry, you can always rebuild.
 

OrangenBlue98

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Biggest questions I have is when can I cut finances off. She’s bleeding me dry.
Like others have said, take the earliest court date. From the time she filed, you will owe back pay on CS and alimony the court may award her. After that she can't ask for any extra money if you guys settle, she'll have to take what the court awarded and that's it.

If you have kids, you'll have to hold your end on custody, and if you get a promotion or start making extra money. Don't show anything off to her, she'll just take you back for a readjustment of the CS payments. This includes bonuses ect..
 

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