Ladies and Gents no BS post looking for advice. Will start divorce proceedings soon.

[Mr.Fitzwell]

As a mod I feel it would be a dereliction of duty to have people on ignore.

 

[Shaun52]

Yeah are lucky to only have to pay 3 years of support. I paid for 15 years. All done now. It really sucks bro, but like some others said — at least your kids are older, so it is won’t be as hard on them.

Here’s the best advice I can give you —-

Have as little contact to none, since your youngest is 15, with your ex, when you are finally divorced. You couldn’t have a conversation, hence the divorce, so you damn sure can’t have one now. Trust me on this one.

How do you deal with the house? I don’t want it. She has no means to pay for it. No job. No credit.

We also have guardianship over another 15-year old child that lost their parents. Brother and sister are taken care of by other families that are friends of ours. Love the kid but he’s not mine. She all of a sudden wants him but I’m not trying to pay CS for this kid.

 

[ChingChongDingDong]

How do you deal with the house? I don’t want it. She has no means to pay for it. No job. No credit.

We also have guardianship over another 15-year old child that lost their parents. Brother and sister are taken care of by other families that are friends of ours. Love the kid but he’s not mine. She all of a sudden wants him but I’m not trying to pay CS for this kid.

I have an 8,6 and 4 year old I pay for every month.

Be happy you have daylight at the end of the tunnel.

 

[Edgehollow]

Sell the house. Not sure how to handle the kid. Judge in that instance will do what's best for the kid and award support, I'd bet. You just may have to bite the bullet for 3 years and pay that bitch.

 

[TFSF]

 

[Sparty1045]

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Steven isn’t that bad. He understands how to troll.

 

[Joe Kings]

It’s time so let’s skip all past the pepper thy
Anus shit because I know I’m already going to get raped in court over it.

First appointment is tomorrow. Looking for any do’s and don’ts to get prepared for separation.

Stand your ground or they’ll run you over

 

[Shaun52]

Nice little update.

Past two weeks I’ve attended my daughters football game as she is a cheerleader. Well informed to everyone I was going to be there. Last week she sees me and runs off the field into hysterics and cries. So I leave. This Friday night she does the same at an away game. Another mother runs off to console her (my soon to be ex stays in the stands). After the mother returns without my daughter from the field house in the end zone, I decided to go see if I can check on her. As I’m getting close to the building she emerges with the athletic director. Busts into hysterics again and AD says I don’t think it’s a good time. I said I understand and not a problem. After stewing in the end zone for a while (I know my ex is behind this alienation of my kids) I decide to say something to her. Separated by a fence she is talking to some dude on the other side of it. I approach her and say, “you want to keep playing these fucking games with our kids then game on!” The tough guy short shit fat fuck she was talking to decides to start barking at me. So I bark back (not in the UGAly since but you know what I mean). After words are exchanged I decide to leave while he continues to bark at me and walk towards cops. I turn around and said fuck it let’s do this. He runs up to cops along with his buddy the principal (I later found out that the short fagit was an off duty sheriff deputy from our town at this away game and the dad of another cheerleader) and complains that I’m a disturbance and needs to leave. I call him a pussy in front of everyone including his daughter that he wants to talk shit then run off to the cops. Three deputies escort me off the grounds and I leave. Later my ex informs me that the principal is banning me from all high school sporting events.

 

[champsballs]

Nice little update.

Past two weeks I’ve attended my daughters football game as she is a cheerleader. Well informed to everyone I was going to be there. Last week she sees me and runs off the field into hysterics and cries. So I leave. This Friday night she does the same at an away game. Another mother runs off to console her (my soon to be ex stays in the stands). After the mother returns without my daughter from the field house in the end zone, I decided to go see if I can check on her. As I’m getting close to the building she emerges with the athletic director. Busts into hysterics again and AD says I don’t think it’s a good time. I said I understand and not a problem. After stewing in the end zone for a while (I know my ex is behind this alienation of my kids) I decide to say something to her. Separated by a fence she is talking to some dude on the other side of it. I approach her and say, “you want to keep playing these fucking games with our kids then game on!” The tough guy short shit fat fuck she was talking to decides to start barking at me. So I bark back (not in the UGAly since but you know what I mean). After words are exchanged I decide to leave while he continues to bark at me and walk towards cops. I turn around and said fuck it let’s do this. He runs up to cops along with his buddy the principal (I later found out that the short fagit was an off duty sheriff deputy from our town at this away game and the dad of another cheerleader) and complains that I’m a disturbance and needs to leave. I call him a pussy in front of everyone including his daughter that he wants to talk shit then run off to the cops. Three deputies escort me off the grounds and I leave. Later my ex informs me that the principal is banning me from all high school sporting events.