Do any of you have trackers on your spouse's phones or on your own?
Is this a concern thing or a controlling invasion of privacy?
Opinions please!
Is this a concern thing or a controlling invasion of privacy?
Opinions please!
Phone tracker! Concern or control?
- Thread starter IAmDamagedGoods
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My wall phone is a rotary dial and still works.
Yeah, it doesn’t seem like that app is suited for y’all. You will be just fine without it. You can also turn off the location services for the app and it will stop showing your location .
Sounds like y’all have trust issues, not sure the app is going to solve or help those.
I'm guessing your husband's ex wife cheated on him.
Or he's a narcissistic control freak of epic proportions...this is not normal behavior and probably won't end well. Just wait until she says she's deleting the app.
@IAmDamagedGoods you have gotten yourself into a mess ma'am.
Just wait until he inevitably finds out about this site.
I was going to ask about that...we are obviously respectful to her but if he doesn't know yet, shit could really hit the fan.
@IAmDamagedGoods does he know about this site yet?
With this evidence, I support this question...
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To answer your question, yes he knows about the site, but he never gets on. He's a musician not a sports fan so he never really got into the conversations. He would trip balls on ME if he knew I was speaking with men PERIOD but y'all ain't got shit to worry about. He knew I was posting last year when all that shit hit the fan with the neighbor shooting at our property, I even showed him the rumble video where the guys spoke about that issue but again he don't really realize that I have conversations with ppl. He's jealous of everything tho but I gotta have a place I can escape for a Lil while. I don't have family or friends so you fucktards get stuck with my fuckery. JK! THANK YALL FOR PUTTING UP WITH MY BS! It really does help my sanity to know that this shit isnt normal.
THANK YALL FOR PUTTING UP WITH MY BS! It really does help my sanity to know that this shit isnt normal.
Bring on the fuckery!To answer your question, yes he knows about the site, but he never gets on. He's a musician not a sports fan so he never really got into the conversations. He would trip balls on ME if he knew I was speaking with men PERIOD but y'all ain't got shit to worry about. He knew I was posting last year when all that shit hit the fan with the neighbor shooting at our property, I even showed him the rumble video where the guys spoke about that issue but again he don't really realize that I have conversations with ppl. He's jealous of everything tho but I gotta have a place I can escape for a Lil while. I don't have family or friends so you fucktards get stuck with my fuckery. JK!
Late to the party, but when he texted “What are you doing at Larry’s?”, you should have come back with “Anal”.
Ask a stupid question…….
Ask a stupid question…….
Same here. It's a requirement for kids with phones.
Its both! BUT the ex-wife shit was 24yrs ago & I'll own my fuck up but that was 12yrs ago & he got me back 8yrs ago. My thing with all of that is...If you choose to stay with someone after whatever they done, doesn't that mean you are supposed to forgive & forget? Not use it as ammunition for the rest of the relationship? I don't throw Whorelene in his face every single day BECAUSE that bitch is irrelevant in my life. Why should I allow her to steal another second or take up space on my head & heart 8yrs after the infidelity? Shit is just stupid asf to me. If you can't get tf over it maybe it's time to move past it. Ya know what I mean??? He most def is a narcissist tho. Learning about that helps a Lil but it doesn't change the fact that living with someone like this is completely exhausting. Love is the most fucked up thing in this world!!! Makes you stupid asf! Yes I'm stupid asf!
Personally, my belief is that if cheating is EVER involved, the relationship should be over ASAP...but I'm a hardass and simply wouldn't have it in my life...fortunately, I've never had to deal with it lol
Idk I believe we are all human & sometimes we succumb to weakness. I believe in 2nd chances but not 3rd, 4th, or 5th chances because then it's just a habit not a mistake. But everyone is different.
I mean, I can see that perspective, but I also believe that if it's ever in question, then you're in the wrong relationship
He's going to have to decide if this life of paranoia is the life he really wants to live. It isn't fun for anyone
Cheaters always give themselves away, you might not catch them immediately though. Don't need an app to drive yourself crazy with
Seems like y’all need to see a therapist and work some shit out. Living like that has got to be exhausting and can’t be fun.
Just decide if you both are willing to forgive and forget and start fresh. If not then it’s time to move on. Life is too short to be miserable.
Just decide if you both are willing to forgive and forget and start fresh. If not then it’s time to move on. Life is too short to be miserable.
Its definitely no way to live! My heart hurts for him because he's driving himself crazy but at the same time, I'm over the bullshit.
I have wheresmydroid on mine. It's supposed to let me remotely factory reset my phone, wipe the SD card, lock the phone, or tell me its GPS coordinates.
However I keep wifi off when I'm not using it, and I keep GPS off pretty much all the time. Also I have a prepaid plan and have 0 data right now. So it's pretty much useless in reality.
I'm getting a new phone for Christmas. I got a Sharp Aquos Wish and I'm going to set it up with Red Pocket. They have a $99 a year plan with 1 gb of data each month. Which isn't a lot but since it drips me some more data each month I can try to ration it.
I've been using Tracfone for years and they're getting more expensive, and they dump a huge pile of data onto you with the 1-year prepaid plan. One of my apps must have been running in the background and ate it all. >:0
However I keep wifi off when I'm not using it, and I keep GPS off pretty much all the time. Also I have a prepaid plan and have 0 data right now. So it's pretty much useless in reality.
I'm getting a new phone for Christmas. I got a Sharp Aquos Wish and I'm going to set it up with Red Pocket. They have a $99 a year plan with 1 gb of data each month. Which isn't a lot but since it drips me some more data each month I can try to ration it.
I've been using Tracfone for years and they're getting more expensive, and they dump a huge pile of data onto you with the 1-year prepaid plan. One of my apps must have been running in the background and ate it all. >:0
