When we were going through the state-mandated foster/adoption training, there was 4 Christian couples, a morbidly obese bulldyke and her androgenous blue-haired goblin, a section 8 couple with tattoos up and down their bodies (who bragged about living totally off of the foster care placements), a conservative, wealthy black couple, and another military couple.
One of the things they reiterated time and again was that foster kids were NOT allowed to sleep with their adopted parents. Makes sense.
But then they had a "meet the parents" event where a bunch of people who had been successfully placed with kids came in to share their stories.
One of the "couples" was a 60-year-old white dude who had divorced his wife of 30 years and abandoned his family, moved a 20-year-old Filipino lady boy in, and the whole presentation was the lady boy giggling about how their adopted "son" slept in his bed and was his "little play thing" (his words) while the old man worked.
We were horrified. As we looked at each other with "you gotta be shitting me" looks, the white liberal women running the agency were laughing along, loving it.
I raised my hand and asked how that squares up with the rule of "no co-sleeping", and the harridans in charge went ballistic.
We had already had and passed a home inspection, but they sent up another "inspector" within days and failed our house on the exact things they had required us to remodel in our home and had praised during the previous inspection.
We got dropped from the program later that week with no explanation and no recourse. In the phone call (to my wife, because the shitlib AWFL was not going to face me), my wife was told she did not talk enough in class, and I talked too much. Wife challenged that, of course, and the AWFL just yelled "I don't care! My decision is FINAL!" and hung up.
It was the longhouse. This was approx 2015 in Redlands, CA. We worked with an agency called "The Kindship Center".
We kept in touch with the normal adoptee hopefuls. We found out that not a single one of the Christian, military, or normal families were placed, but all the gang-bangers, goblins, and freaks didn't have to wait at all to have kids placed in their homes.