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AmericanViking

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Once they realize that you are on to them. They will take every vulnerability you have shared with them you can imagine and find a way to use those weaknesses against you. If you have kids and he knows they mean a lot to you he will use them against you if possible. They do this in hopes that you respond irrationally and then paint you to be the crazy one. They will blame you for everything, they are incapable of having empathy.

That’s what my brother went through
 

MFFGA

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That’s what my brother went through
Thoughts and Prayers for your brother. I was married to one, and have spent over 40 grand in lawyers battling false allegations for custody battles. She had an affair with my neighbor, who has now tried to fight me 4 times. I served in the military and have PTSD, the fights are an attempt to bait me to react so she can say I'm to unstable to be around the kids. It is straight madness, and the courts love when a divorce goes this way. $$$
 

AmericanViking

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Thoughts and Prayers for your brother. I was married to one, and have spent over 40 grand in lawyers battling false allegations for custody battles. She had an affair with my neighbor, who has now tried to fight me 4 times. I served in the military and have PTSD, the fights are an attempt to bait me to react so she can say I'm to unstable to be around the kids. It is straight madness, and the courts love when a divorce goes this way. $$$

Sorry dude. It’s long fucked up story with my brother that continues today.
 

MFFGA

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Sorry dude. It’s long fucked up story with my brother that continues today.
It will never end. I have learned to accept it. The best ways to deal with them is keeping all communication to email or text messages. Keep it only about the children, even if they bait you to argue while trying to discuss the children. Go silent mode and try to go back to the discussion a few days later. Build a trail of evidence, I always wear a hidden camera around my ex for every function. Luckily my daughters are very bright and see through the bullshit their mom spews to them, if only they were old enough to choose where they want to live.
 

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It will never end. I have learned to accept it. The best ways to deal with them is keeping all communication to email or text messages. Keep it only about the children, even if they bait you to argue while trying to discuss the children. Go silent mode and try to go back to the discussion a few days later. Build a trail of evidence, I always wear a hidden camera around my ex for every function. Luckily my daughters are very bright and see through the bullshit their mom spews to them, if only they were old enough to choose where they want to live.

That’s kinda crazy but unfortunately it’s a little to common.
After your kids turn 18 if you wanna stomp out this dirtbag neighbor I got your back.
 

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Just saying!

Sorry I’m more of a fentanyl type of guy.
I know a place u could get some good shit if you wanna sprinkle a little bit on ur hubby’s meth pipe, he’d never know what hit him it’d be a nice relaxing slow painless death. Then twist the turntables and jab that cocksucker with about 5 doses of narcan turn up some really loud edm and watch him freak out
 

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Sorry I’m more of a fentanyl type of guy.
I know a place u could get some good shit if you wanna sprinkle a little bit on ur hubby’s meth pipe, he’d never know what hit him it’d be a nice relaxing slow painless death. Then twist the turntables and jab that cocksucker with about 5 doses of narcan turn up some really loud edm and watch him freak out

FIFY
 
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Sorry I’m more of a fentanyl type of guy.
I know a place u could get some good shit if you wanna sprinkle a little bit on ur hubby’s meth pipe, he’d never know what hit him it’d be a nice relaxing slow painless death. Then twist the turntables and jab that cocksucker with about 5 doses of narcan turn up some really loud edm and watch him freak out
We don't fuck with that shit! Thank God!!!!!! I can't imagine him on meth on top of his mental issues! I love plants tho.
 
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back to personality disorders......

it is common for narc\socio\psycho...........to be people pleasers. Some learn to control it.
Thoughts and Prayers for your brother. I was married to one, and have spent over 40 grand in lawyers battling false allegations for custody battles. She had an affair with my neighbor, who has now tried to fight me 4 times. I served in the military and have PTSD, the fights are an attempt to bait me to react so she can say I'm to unstable to be around the kids. It is straight madness, and the courts love when a divorce goes this way. $$$
the courts dont give a fuck, the lawyers like it, understand that
 

MFFGA

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back to personality disorders......

it is common for narc\socio\psycho...........to be people pleasers. Some learn to control it.

the courts dont give a fuck, the lawyers like it, understand that
Normally I would agree with you. With that said, the county I live in is a good ole boys network. My ex wifes attorney represents all the judges on their own personal cases except 1 judge in the county. I was finally able to get the original judge recused due to the conflict of interest back in March. I am in the process of filing paperwork with the JTC because of this conflict of interest.

I am not the only parent it is happening to where I live. Thankfully enough people have started to stand up and accountability is coming. Multiple judges and a specific law firm have been getting hit with lawsuits.

The worst part is once you start connecting the dots this law firm and specific judges also hangout with many pedos in the county and protect them. Many photos have also surfaced of said judges with underage girls on their boats and these pedos with them.
 

MFFGA

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That’s kinda crazy but unfortunately it’s a little to common.
After your kids turn 18 if you wanna stomp out this dirtbag neighbor I got your back.
This guy is real special. So we became friends before he had an affair with my ex wife. We met because they were looking for daycare for his soon to be born baby girl. He told me he was an Army Airborne Ranger. He also went on to tell me about shit that happened to him in Afghanistan. Plus he bragged about all the guys he got to join the Army based off his stories. After I found out about the affair. I poked further into his past, he went in the Army, but received an uncharacterized discharge after 3 months and 13 days. Piece of shit steals valor as well. I cant wait until their 18th bday.
 

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This guy is real special. So we became friends before he had an affair with my ex wife. We met because they were looking for daycare for his soon to be born baby girl. He told me he was an Army Airborne Ranger. He also went on to tell me about shit that happened to him in Afghanistan. Plus he bragged about all the guys he got to join the Army based off his stories. After I found out about the affair. I poked further into his past, he went in the Army, but received an uncharacterized discharge after 3 months and 13 days. Piece of shit steals valor as well. I cant wait until their 18th bday.

Did you and his wife consider getting revenge?
 

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23yrs ago, when I got married, mental health issues weren't really discussed. Those who suffered from mental issues were shamed into not receiving the help they truly needed. I didn't even know what Narcissism was until recently but learning of this disorder has opened my eyes to so much. For anyone else dealing with a loved one who has this issue, my heart goes out to you. It is easy to love but hard to like a narcissist! Those who know...KNOW!!!
Very brave post!

Let me guess, he is a orange man supporter?
 

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This guy is real special. So we became friends before he had an affair with my ex wife. We met because they were looking for daycare for his soon to be born baby girl. He told me he was an Army Airborne Ranger. He also went on to tell me about shit that happened to him in Afghanistan. Plus he bragged about all the guys he got to join the Army based off his stories. After I found out about the affair. I poked further into his past, he went in the Army, but received an uncharacterized discharge after 3 months and 13 days. Piece of shit steals valor as well. I cant wait until their 18th bday.
Did you and his wife consider getting revenge?

Get your mind out of the gutter @AmericanViking nobody wants to see any weird revenge porn right now.
@MFFGA you have my attention and curiosity. If you want this faggit messed with you know where to find me
 

MFFGA

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Did you and his wife consider getting revenge?
The thought came across our minds many times and almost happened one night. With that said, because her ex husband and my ex wife were being so sloppy with keeping their relationship away from the kids. We did not want to chance it and have the kids find out. Probably should have just said fuck it and plowed away. Plus the ultimate revenge will happen to him one day. She will do the same shit to him as she did to me.
 

MFFGA

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Did you and his wife consider getting revenge?
Plus I got the ultimate revenge in the end. Since my divorce I have lost 135 pounds, I have taken my PTSD more serious and am getting the right help for it finally. I have been working on a business for the last year and a half and its finally starting to pay off. Plus I get that crazy bitch off my back. My kids and I have the best relationship we have ever had regardless of the parental alienation she tries to throw at them.
 

MFFGA

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back to personality disorders......

it is common for narc\socio\psycho...........to be people pleasers. Some learn to control it.

the courts dont give a fuck, the lawyers like it, understand that
Plus if you look up child support and title 4 D it will blow your mind and how the courts have created another way to spread the wealth. I'm all for child support but when the federal government has a clause that they will match child support dollars that are brought in by the state at a federal level. That's why we have custodial parents and the system we have.
 

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Normally I would agree with you. With that said, the county I live in is a good ole boys network. My ex wifes attorney represents all the judges on their own personal cases except 1 judge in the county. I was finally able to get the original judge recused due to the conflict of interest back in March. I am in the process of filing paperwork with the JTC because of this conflict of interest.

I am not the only parent it is happening to where I live. Thankfully enough people have started to stand up and accountability is coming. Multiple judges and a specific law firm have been getting hit with lawsuits.

The worst part is once you start connecting the dots this law firm and specific judges also hangout with many pedos in the county and protect them. Many photos have also surfaced of said judges with underage girls on their boats and these pedos with them.
You’re either full of shit or you don’t know how this internet thing works
 

MFFGA

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You’re either full of shit or you don’t know how this internet thing works
I am not full of shit. I can provide this stuff, unfortunately I am in the middle of a custody battle so there is only so much I will post. If you wish to see the stuff I have, it will take some time to dig up. I will gladly send it to you through a direct message. The county I live in, there's a guy who tried to go up against the system and the judge put him in jail on bullshit contempt charges.
 
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What is the discard phase?
Generally speaking, it typically manifests prior to the "lovebombing" phase of the—sometimes delayed—yet repeating cycle of perpetual—ever compounding abuse.

A petulant child may discard a toy—perhaps, for a time,...but so far as the child's concerned, that toy is forever a possession.
 
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Plus I got the ultimate revenge in the end. Since my divorce I have lost 135 pounds, I have taken my PTSD more serious and am getting the right help for it finally. I have been working on a business for the last year and a half and its finally starting to pay off. Plus I get that crazy bitch off my back. My kids and I have the best relationship we have ever had regardless of the parental alienation she tries to throw at them.
Not to get too gay but you lost 135 lbs? You must have been a fat mofo..........were you that way when you got married of did you gain the weight after marriage,,,,,,did she get all fat too?
 
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I read a great deal regarding popular psychosis and I can tell you that if you read what 10 experts have to say you will find they all have their own little twist on a very unfortunate mental conundrum. Good luck.
Absolutely agree.
This is indictive as to the True purpose for the—propping up—of such individuals—as these so-called "experts",...
...in all influential positions of mankind's departmentalized civilization.

*Control.

Ever wonder why Freud and Jung fell out?
Definitely check into it, if not already.

Anyways, here's some insightful literature from Jung:

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😁👍
 

MFFGA

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Not to get too gay but you lost 135 lbs? You must have been a fat mofo..........were you that way when you got married of did you gain the weight after marriage,,,,,,did she get all fat too?
I was about 315 when we got married, 350 at my biggest and 325 by the time she filed for divorce. I had actually started getting healthy and changing my life style before she filed.
 
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