You have to remember that a lot of people have zero idea about this stuff. You have to actively seek out an alternate opinion. Otherwise you are bombarded from friends, family, coworkers/bosses/employees, tv, radio, Twitter, Facebook and on and on. Not to mention google skewing results even if you look for additional info.
The people that deserve the blame are the pharmaceutical companies, cdc, fda, media and governments. You could blame some Drs too, but I’m not convinced doctors in general are much more intelligent than the general population.
I ran into an old buddy this weekend. He’s a successful, smart guy. He got jabbed for the federal contractor EO and was shocked that I wasn’t (we are both engineers that do federal work). His 8yr old daughter asked for the shot and he doesn’t want her to get it but is considering letting her choose. I gave him my basic opinion on the matter and told him that my kids will not get that shot and I already told my wife my kids are going to homeschool if it ever becomes required for school.
Parents should know better but a lot of people just don’t see alternative information. I think you are being too hard on them.