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What do you to to prepare for a divorce?

From whatever source you can find, be it other dudes, hearsay, on line reviews, find THE best divorce lawyer in your town (especially if it's a chick) and go consult with that person right now. Tomorrow. Most lawyers will do the first consult gratis - even if it's $100 do it. Even if your minds are changed later on divorce.

What that does is takes that person out of the running to represent your wife. Conflict after you talk to her (him).

Read through all the other advice ITT.

None better than this from experience(s).
 
Take advantage of the opportunity and get knee deep in copious amounts of strange ass. It's like fishing with dynamite these days, just be sure you resign yourself to the fact that every girl on those dating apps is crazier than a run over dog
 
If she wants out its the best time to strike, financially, OP.

Try to buy her out cheap, with cash, pronto.

She probably has a guy lined up, no offense, and this is exactly what you want.

Prey on her emotions, aka get her to sign asap because all she can think of is freedom.
 
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