VRBO offers special deals to property management companies. Most property managers pay a flat fee every year to be on their website. They do charge the guests an additional fee though. We pay $499 per year per property we have listed.
All of the things you listed should be done by the property management company. You will also be assigned a property manager that will be in charge of maintaining your house. I would be sure to ask how old your PM is and how long they have been in the business. This person is the one who is truly taking care of your home. It is a burn out job and PM's come and go quickly.
Your expectation are realistic but you need to factor in additional fees from property managers. A lot of companies will nickel and dime the hell out of you. We actually have a minor maintenance program that covers most of the day to day things like air filters, batteries, smoke detectors, resetting routers, rehanging towel bars and pictures. There is a yearly fee for this service. You will also want to make sure they have 24/7 housekeeping and maintenance services. That doesn't mean they will come out to sweep your floors or change a bulb at 2:00 in the morning, but you want to make sure they have some one on call for emergencies.
If you will DM me your email address, I will send our new owner's information booklet that covers all the services we provide