She's ghosting me right now. She did lay out a pretty intricate framework for her ghosting, though. I'll give her credit. She claimed she had eye surgery on Friday and would be incapacitated for a few days during recovery. It's now Wednesday and I haven't heard from her. It's the ghosting part of this market that makes me pause and step away.
First off, I'll state upfront that I'm totally inexperienced with this threads subject matter and am not addressing that aspect at all, instead I seek to address the aforementioned "Ghosting" being experienced, and would like to explain that anyone who displays this specific type of irresponsible behaviour, most certainly ought to be recognized for what it demonstrates of their true character, -in the simplest terms: #Unreliability.
[#"Ghosting" is considered a type of dysfunctional -passive aggressive behaviour, and irregardless whether or not the individual, them self, is actually aware of this maladaptive behaviour, or whether it is intentional or not, the affects upon others can rapidly manifest as various degrees of psychological/emotional harm.
@ttyh -[ie: In this specific case you've described, it sorta seems to me that the subsequent effect resulting from her "Ghosting", may have elicited within your-self, possibly a subtly arising sense of uncertainty/confusion with regard this chick,...although I wish to be clear that this is merely my limited subjective opinion based on almost 0 adequate details. I just don't like it when people are potentially being on the receiving end of covertly abusive behaviours and thus am compelled to try and help people gain some understanding in order to independently protect themselves from the various, and often ever compounding, harmful resulting effects.]
