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Esso Club

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I have a coworker who I’ve always gotten along with except for one week when he was mad at me and basically wouldn’t speak one word to me. Since then, he’s acting strange, extremely talkative, very talkative, could he be bi-polar? Could he be on something? I don’t think he’s on anything. Thoughts?
 

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Did you bang his wife? Bang his dog?

Im no rocket scientist, but I would guess this still has to do with him being mad at you, but I don’t know without the details.

I know this will sound strange, but have you perhaps spoken with him about this? Yeah I know, who talks to people anymore in person.
 

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Weird when men react in a manner normal for women. Ive only trusted a fart one time and never trusted a man who gets mad and ignores another man. Especially the mad ignore, back to not mad talkative. Shits weird. But yes he sounds high then as low as he is high. Teach him to hide it.
 

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There's only one solution: A big wet kiss and make up session.

That'll bring a smile to his face.

Of course I'd never do a thing like that, but you live you.
 

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You'd know better than us, given we only have 2 sentences about the situation and you are living it... more details? Why was he mad at you for a week?
@GarnetPild the reason he was mad at me is pretty petty in my opinion. I work for a business where I work in the warehouse portion. We receive all kinds of deliveries and one day our pallets from France arrived. The pallets contain all of our “parts” that we package and sell to our customers. The pallets are stacked very high and are very heavy. My coworker asked me to grab a pallet jack, or so he says, I never heard him, but nonetheless I did nothing to help. So for about a week we said nothing to each other. One day I said enough of this shit so I approached him and asked him why we weren’t speaking like we use to. Keep in mind this is a guy who’d buy my lunch/I’d buy his lunch and we’d cut up on a daily basis. So when I asked him what’s up he briefly told me and when I prodded him for more information he said “I don’t want to get into with you.” So I let him be. I couldn’t believe it when later on in the day he suggested I wasn’t much of a team player at work. Shit I’d always drop what I was doing to help him out whenever he needed it. Or help anyone of my coworkers when they needed help. He had even given me praise for helping him so much. No kidding. It was like he did a 180 on me. Now, he can’t stop talking to me, it’s like he’s on freaking Adderrall. Now some of his actions are downright strange and annoying. Yesterday I asked him had he ever been on a drug such as Adderrall and said not on prescription but he’d get it illegally from a friend. That he said was awhile back, but I definitely think otherwise. Hope that clears things up. I have a great job and love what I do for what it’s worth.
 

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@GarnetPild the reason he was mad at me is pretty petty in my opinion. I work for a business where I work in the warehouse portion. We receive all kinds of deliveries and one day our pallets from France arrived. The pallets contain all of our “parts” that we package and sell to our customers. The pallets are stacked very high and are very heavy. My coworker asked me to grab a pallet jack, or so he says, I never heard him, but nonetheless I did nothing to help. So for about a week we said nothing to each other. One day I said enough of this shit so I approached him and asked him why we weren’t speaking like we use to. Keep in mind this is a guy who’d buy my lunch/I’d buy his lunch and we’d cut up on a daily basis. So when I asked him what’s up he briefly told me and when I prodded him for more information he said “I don’t want to get into with you.” So I let him be. I couldn’t believe it when later on in the day he suggested I wasn’t much of a team player at work. Shit I’d always drop what I was doing to help him out whenever he needed it. Or help anyone of my coworkers when they needed help. He had even given me praise for helping him so much. No kidding. It was like he did a 180 on me. Now, he can’t stop talking to me, it’s like he’s on freaking Adderrall. Now some of his actions are downright strange and annoying. Yesterday I asked him had he ever been on a drug such as Adderrall and said not on prescription but he’d get it illegally from a friend. That he said was awhile back, but I definitely think otherwise. Hope that clears things up. I have a great job and love what I do for what it’s worth.

That is pretty weird. Sounds like whatever his issue is, it isn't with you, but he is focusing his anger in your direction anyway. I'd steer clear of him & see how that goes. Might even have to tell him to leave you alone & not talk to you unless his job requires him to. No fun.
 

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That is pretty weird. Sounds like whatever his issue is, it isn't with you, but he is focusing his anger in your direction anyway. I'd steer clear of him & see how that goes. Might even have to tell him to leave you alone & not talk to you unless his job requires him to. No fun.
Naw, he’s not angry with me anymore, deep down I think he’s a good guy. His mom is in her 80’s and he moved back in with her to help care for her. He cuts his elderly neighbor’s grass, he just has his quirks, hell I know I do.
 

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Couple things.. feminism destroyed masculinity and the dude didn’t have male role models growing up so he’s acting like a girl.
Also OP, he’s into you. Tap your foot in the shitter stall and see who comes crawling.
 

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Most guys aren’t Iike that, we get mad, maybe we say something maybe we don’t but we tend to move on quicker than women. They will mope around for days if they are pissed about something. He may have been having a bad week, living with your 80 year old mother can’t be easy.
 

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I have a coworker who I’ve always gotten along with except for one week when he was mad at me and basically wouldn’t speak one word to me. Since then, he’s acting strange, extremely talkative, very talkative, could he be bi-polar? Could he be on something? I don’t think he’s on anything. Thoughts?
Stop posting half naked pics of his daughter…problem solved
 

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Once you realize that the rest of the world is crazy, it makes it much easier to keep your head down and pursue your own happiness at work or at home. I’m not just spouting off, I mean lower your expectations because other people are actually crazy. When you wake up thinking that, it is less surprising and disappointing because you’ve come to peace with it before they have another episode.
 

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